You Never Saw Me Naked, You Never Knew About My Dreams

You never saw me naked, you never knew about my dreams. My dreams consumed by the passage of time that was put on hold thinking that we would meet again. Now I have realized that this waiting was a wasted time with a mind full of shrews and chimeras. If you are in love enough, there is nothing that needs to change, only increase the desire to be together and overcome the difficulties that prevent it.

I also realize that our idealized intimate encounters were nothing more than distracting dust from knowing the truth about the person you hug. Undressing before someone is to show that you bet until the end, despite the traps and dramas along the way. Now I realize that my nudity only showed you my availability, but you never intuited the dedication that was behind it.

Undressing is not the same as stripping your body and soul

Even being naked, what goes through our mind when it is naked is true intimacy, which sometimes remains undaunted and inherent interspersed between caresses and passion, an intimacy that is silenced because we think that it can hinder the development of passion.

Conversations of the future and of what is expected to be avoided because of “that all the words are unnecessary when a real hug is given.” But, how to believe in that language of the hug if for someone it is a moment and for the other it is the eternity that wants to be shared? . When two souls are at peace, war should not be declared with silence. It is good to talk about fears, expectations, feelings.

Because how can a relationship develop normally without knowing what happens to the dreams of the other party. His ideas before life, his way of being happy as a person. How to turn a blind eye to a very strong feeling inside one, in which the other is trapped.

Undressing yourself before the other person, when what is kept inside is true intimacy

Any person gives himself to the other not thinking of receiving anything, nothing that is not what derives from the same quality of intimacy. However, it is expected without asking that after the kisses, hugs and passions, that which is within ourselves comes to the surface. Because hiding what you feel is not a free love, but a prisoner love.

Romantic love cannot be enjoyed by ignoring the illusions and images that are emerging from it. Sometimes it is ignored for fear of being hurt, for an extension of the unconscious or for the avoidance of a misunderstood commitment, which is not to serve a sentence but to get rid of it when you really live what it feels like.

We can be willing to wait for the fear to go away, but we can wait without ending our existence knowing what we really are. Perhaps that is the risk that you do not want to take, but if you avoid taking it, you will never know what someone could fit in the dreams of the other more than in their nakedness.

The Zeigarnik effect of some relationships

There is no worse nostalgia than longing for what never was, and there is no worse certainty than knowing that something good is lost forever. They say that open endings and unfinished stories are more charming, that what is interrupted is always best remembered, “the Zeigarnik effect” that psychology describes in its studies on memory.

However, what applies to memory does not serve for desire or regret. Interrupting what you want and love is a regret that will never be remembered in a heroic way, but rather by revealing the cowardice that was had at that time. Shut up naked so as not to disturb, losers of a love that will drag down oblivion.